Over the weekend I had an ‘electronic’ debate with a friend over a moral issue. It was an issue that I did not agree with or understand when I was younger. In fact, it was an issue that I would have been guilty of not following at one time. I have since changed my opinion and the way I live. I forced myself to look at it from the other persons’ perspective. Instead of criticizing and judging, I found myself wanting to understand WHY? Why did I once share their opinion and now vehemently oppose?
As I was going over it in my head, I was reminded of my younger years when I used to say things like “my parents just don’t understand” and “things are different now and they just don’t get it“. I remember thinking they were wrong and I would not believe all the things they believe. At times I thought they were trying to control me. With time and maturity, I have come to realize that there were just some things I did not yet understand. My parents were simply trying to protect me, not control me.
It instantly reminded me of the Church. I am a practicing Catholic that did not always believe in everything my faith was trying to teach me. But now I realize that, like a parent that wants to protect their children from things they do not yet understand, the Church is just trying to protect me and NOT control me.