Do you remember the days when your mother would exclaim the ever so famous phrase, “wait till your father gets home“!? There was a time when these 6 words would have sent chills down the spine of any child.
It seems like this phrase has been abandoned in most households. I am sure there are some critics that would say for a good reason, as it may seem outdated. You will have to humor me for a moment because little did we know, in saying this phrase, there was a rich unity (between mom and dad) that was being played out in this good cop bad cop routine.
As kids we knew that mom meant business once she made this announcement, and we would have to wait for what seemed like an eternity before dad got home. It left us to think about what we had done wrong and the consequences associated with the behavior. Mom took comfort in knowing that dad would have her back. Once dad arrived home from work, a discussion would ensue which lead to communication between mom and dad and showed a united front. Mom would enjoy getting a little relief from feeling like she was always the bad guy. Most importantly, dad was a part of the process! After all, it takes a mother AND a father.